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The Quiet Hustle: A Reflection on Quiet Ambition

  • Writer: Amrita Barthakur
    Amrita Barthakur
  • Nov 15
  • 3 min read
Finding my voice in a world that rewards the loud

Note :

This piece comes from a place I don’t often show : the small moments where I second-guess myself, wait a moment too long, or have to quietly remind myself to speak up. Even now, I have to push myself sometimes… even fake the confidence. I am sharing this because I know so many of us feel this way quietly. If any part of this feels familiar to you too, I hope these words bring a little clarity or comfort on the days you need it.


A quiet worker in a noisy world ...
A quiet worker in a noisy world ...

There’s a question I have quietly carried for years:

Do quiet workers get lost in the noise?


Some days, it feels like we do. Not in dramatic ways - just in those small moments where someone else (especially in meetings and boardrooms) speaks first, or more confidently, and the room moves on before you have had a chance to share what you were holding.

Such moments make you pause. They leave a faint, sinking feeling - the kind that makes you wonder if your way of working is enough. They sting. They make you feel a little dimmed and a touch demotivated.


These are quiet moments, but they stay with you. They make you replay conversations. They make you think, “Maybe I should have spoken sooner”. Or, “Maybe I should have claimed my space differently”.


I have always been someone who thinks before speaking. Not out of fear - out of care. I never want to step on someone’s toes, take more credit than I should, or say something careless that might dim someone else's confidence. Most times I overthink all of this.

And sometimes, yes, that gets mistaken for hesitation.


But here’s the part people don’t see unless they have worked closely with me:

I work with a clear head when everything around me is falling apart. When the room gets chaotic, I find clarity. When things go wrong, I move quickly, with intention. I don’t freeze. I focus.


My mind is fast. My voice is careful.


And the truth is, even now, I have to remind myself to speak up. I still have moments where I second-guess my opinions, where I hesitate for that one extra moment, wondering if what I am about to say is important enough or relevant enough. Most days, I fake that confidence. Fake it till you make it, right? But thankfully, I am now at a stage in my life where I can say this out loud - not because I have “overcome” it, but because I am learning to work with it. And I hope it gives reassurance to anyone who feels the same quiet doubt before they speak.


I have always been ambitious, quietly and steadily. I care about doing things well. Being someone people can rely on. Building work that stands even when no one is watching. My ambition isn’t loud, but it is deep.


There were times I wondered if being thoughtful made me less visible. If pausing for a moment meant missing the moment. If my way of working had a place in a world that rewards the quick and the loud.


But over the years, I have learnt something I want every quiet worker to know:

Steady work builds trust.

Intentional work builds respect.

Quiet work builds something that lasts.


People eventually notice. Maybe not at first, but they do. And when they do, they rely on it.


My hustle exists too - it just looks different. Not the breathless rush of constant noise, but a grounded, steady kind that values clarity, peace, and people.


Because success, for me, isn’t standing alone in the spotlight. It’s moving forward without losing myself — and choosing to carry others along whenever I can.


Maybe that’s my version of ambition

Quiet. Sustained. Kind.


PS: Writing this isn’t about suddenly speaking louder. It’s about owning my voice, even if it’s a quiet one, even if it sometimes shakes before it’s heard.


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