They Once Held Us, Now We Hold Them: A Call For Empathy!
No one tells you how much it will hurt! How watching your once-strong parents grow weak will shatter something deep inside you. How their...
Mar 27, 20253 min read
I Have Never Felt More Like Myself And This Alone | Midlife Loneliness
I Have Never Felt More Like Myself. And Never Felt This Alone. I know who I am now. I trust my decisions. I trust my instincts. I do not look outside myself to feel steady anymore. I do not wait to be chosen. I do not stay where something feels off. I do not spend time explaining myself in the hope of being understood. There is a certainty I did not have before. Of what I bring. Of what I deserve. Of what I will walk away from, even if it costs me. I am not trying to
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When Need Becomes Choice
(A note before I begin: this isn’t about blame, or about one relationship. It’s about a quiet shift many women feel (I can only talk about a woman’s perspective), and many couples probably live, but don’t always say out loud.) There was a time when women needed men for survival. Financially. Socially. Practically. That time is changing. Today, many women run full lives on their own. We work. We earn. We parent. We remember everything - the laundry cycles, the groceries runnin
Feb 223 min read
